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Rudy asked:


So, I’m 19 and ready to date. I’ve done the bar and club things and I was not all impressed… so, what are good places here in Austin, Texas to meet single gay men?

itponnana asked:


Interested to know if you’ve been there…and whats the scene like. Are there places where singles can look for someone of the opposite sex?

worldpeace asked:


I want to meet a girl with whom I can travel the world.
The problem with all the dating websites is that they all require you to specificy a particular location. But since I will be traveling away from home, and so will she, it really doesn’t matter if we don’t start out in the same location.

Are there any dating websites specifically for people who plan to spend most of their lives traveling and not anchored down to any one place?

Lyricoll asked:


I initiated contact with a guy on a personals website. We started texting with the understanding that I had very limited minutes and couldn’t exchange a lot and that I was at work (at this particular time.) He depleted my minutes by bombarding me with texts most of which included comments about me being “sexy″ and us snuggling etc. He even wanted to come up to my job! Should I call off the date? Is this a red flag?

lina asked:


I tried both mininova and isohunt and all they are offering me to download is the whole album. I only want singles.

emartel01 asked:


What is the singles/dating scene like in Seattle for a single guy? Are the women into the metrosexual/sophisticated type or the causal t-shirt and jeans guy. Also, I hear that the women there don’t really care too much about fashion and. Basically someone told me that women in Seattle put on no make up, or dress up nicely, and walk out of the house with a sweater.

Can someone give me a detailed explanation on the singles scene in Seattle?

Jesse G asked:


i am 15 and suffered a stroke due to some unknow reason me and my swprrch thearpist figure what part of the brain that took the blunt of the damage controled movement singles to the left side of the body so why was my balance affect along with mental peocessing

Alex Coulson asked:


Top Dating Tips

Are you a new member to the dating scene? Are you regular in trying to meet new women? Whatever you might be, you must be eager to know about dating and gathering tips and suggestions that are going to help you when you would be dating. It also happens to so many people that they simply wish to have had met a dating guide who could have offered him some dating tips and dating advices. The case may not be quite different in your case also.

There is a very wrong notion regarding dating or attracting women. Some people in the world think that the good looking people are the original winners are the perfect dating masters. Otherwise there must be some magic formula. My dear friend, let me explain it to you. There is, in fact, no magic formula. Neither the good looking persons are always perfect dating masters. It is all within you. The women that you want to date are no goddesses or no supernatural beings. They are human beings after all. Behave like a man what you are. If you can successfully carry this out, you are surely going to be a perfect dating master. If you are looking for dating tips that will help you become a dating master just click down the page and you will come across the top dating tips that, if you follow, are sure to make you a successful and tricky dating master.

Tip 1 of top dating tips:

Before you venture upon anything, preparation is something that is a must. If you really have the desire to become a dating master, you must think of the preparation that you ought to take before you start out with dating a woman. Get it sure which part of the day you are free for the dating. You should also think in which part of the day you are most comfortable with general people. Take dating as a part of your daily and very natural routine. There is no reason to take dating as a serious affair.

Tip 2 of top dating tips:

It is true that you never need to be a very attractive and handsome looking person. On the other hand it has to be kept in mind that you should not be bad looking. And, no one on this planet is bad looking. What you are asked to do is to take care of your health so that you do not look ugly. Visit the gym regularly. Have the stylish hair cut and get into the right pairs of clothing. All of these things would reflect what kind of care you take of yourself. You may look mad or an extremely careless person. But you can say, “There’s a method in my madness.” They cannot but believe you.

Tip 3 of top dating tips:

Before you begin with dating women, have your homework first. What you need moist is the familiarity with the situation in which you are going to date a woman. You should also prepare yourself for a number of situations for you never know what kid of situations you are going to face while dating a particular woman or proposing a woman for dating. If have the ideas about the situations from an earlier time, it would be quite easier for you to cope up with the situation when it really arrives.

Tip 4 of top dating tips:

This is going to be one of the most important and top dating tips. Give it a deep thought before you start dating women. The question arises what you will give the thought to. Have a clear conception about how long you want to proceed with the relationship with the woman whom you are dating. Decisions will of course be different if you are going to marry within a short period of time.

Tip 5 of top dating tips:

Have confidence. There is no better tip for you to become a dating master. If you have it you are better than anybody. If you are without it, none can help you. Try to gain confidence in each and every action of yours. You can also gain confidence out of your thinking process. Have a positive thinking in your mind.

Tip 6 of top dating tips:

Enjoy dating as it is. Pay attention to your desires or some deeper intentions. At the same time, you have got to keep in mind the fact that the first and foremost step of dating women is to be sociable and familiar with them. Do that perfectly before everything, and you will fid that women themselves are desirous of dating you.

Tip 7 of top dating tips:

Take care that you are giving proper time to the woman you are dating. Even if it happens that you are dating a dozen of women at a time, without letting anyone know about your dating with the others, your body language should make it clear that you are too interested in her and her only.

Tip 8 of top dating tips:

Your interaction with the women should never reflect the fact that you are always available for the woman. Do not be humble for making out or going to the bed in the initial stages. The more you become attractive to the women, they more they will feel going to bed with you. It never means that you turn your face from sex in such a manner that women start avoiding you supposing that you are sexually frustrated and frustrating as well.

Alex Coulson has been a core leader in the ever evolving dating industry, he holds cutting-edge dating workshops/courses every weekend around Australia and regularly holds dating seminars on attracting women internationally.

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TLW asked:


Last year I went as a punk fairy and the year before as a witch. I need some fresh ideas.

Mitchell Milch asked:


For many single parents casual dating is frustrating and annoying. Looking for a new partner however, can be downright frightening. In fact many single parents who are gun shy after divorce go in one of two directions. They either convince themselves they are better off not going beyond getting their feet wet at best or they deny and minimize their fears and make reckless plunges. Why you may ask? Well, the chronically painful realities of divorce that involve children may be likened to having a chronic and debilitating illness like arthritis. Instead of periodic flare ups of painful inflammation of muscles and joints we are left dealing with periodic flare ups of our children’s painful struggles to come to terms with our divorces, flare ups of our own painful struggles to come to terms with divorce and episodic painful dealings with our divorced spouses. The evolution and stabilization of split off family units do not come about without mourning obsolete family units and coping with individual and systemic growing pains.

Furthermore, many of us after unsuccessful marriages have our self esteem wounded, experience guilt over making our kids victims of decisions that didn’t work out, may begin to doubt our abilities to choose appropriate partners and even delude ourselves into believing we are entitled to and can realistically expect to forge intimate and satisfying relationships without risking disappointments and rejections. Have you endured all the discouragement you can take in one paragraph? Good, now I can resurrect your hopes for a happier outcome the second time around with my dating tips for single parents.

The thematic threat that holds my recommendations together is the adage: “finding a suitable partner is about racing in slow motion.” Like a well schooled marathoner runner, we are less likely to drop out of the race by virtue of hitting an impenetrable wall of disappointment, frustration and discouragement if we hold back, hold back, and hold back some more despite impulses to fall in infatuation in the early stages of a relationship. Most relationships destined to end when the blooms of infatuation fades are likely to end in the first six months. The faster we move the shorter they tend to be as human beings never measure up to our fantasies of them. It takes a history of consistent contacts, continuity of conversations and emotional connecting to build authentic, reliable and sustainable relationships. Rome was not built in a day. Neither are loving relationships.

The marathon doesn′t really begin until after the first half of the race is over and I contend that most relating doesn′t begin until the flames of infatuation cease to burn in an out of control fashion. It’s at this time the edge is taken off the urgency to be magnets for each other. We begin to put into focus the outlines of the people we have been pursuing as three dimensional people as distinct and separate from needs gratifying objects.

What is especially important to consider as attachments deepen is what roles from early childhood will your partners’ feel compelled to re-live and pressure you to re-live with them. We don’t know someone intimately until we get a flavor of the ghosts of seasons past we will be dealing with from time to time.

I say this no matter how great is the chemistry and/or level of comfort between the two of you. If we level with ourselves we don’t want to get involved with partners who in their repeating of history engage in abusive and neglectful dynamics even if they are darlings the rest of the time. Unless of course, they own these issues as their problems and are actively working them through. I can’t count how many times I have heard inside and outside of my private practice things like: “he was an angel until he moved in and then, became a tyrant, ” or “She gave me so much freedom to be myself until we got engaged and then, she wanted to know my whereabouts every hour of the day” or “He was great with my kids until we got married and then, he became jealous and envious to the point of hating them.”

In summary, to ensure that you are not blinded by the uncontaminated fantasies about a potential partner which assume lives of their own early on in relationships when there is little history together, clear boundaries, and infrequent contacts, please consider the following recommendations before you make any commitments and go beyond the point of no return.

1) It’s human nature to wish to possess that which holds the potential to satisfy powerful yearnings.

I urge all of you out there to consider staying out of bed as long as is possible and to do your best not to lavish your dates with expressions of infatuation which may be confused by both of you with expressions of love. Infatuations are by nature, deceptive. The ocean may look very inviting however, if there is an undertow you simply must refrain from getting in to deep until it subsides. Once you take the sexual plunge it’s hard to swim back towards shore against the tide.

2) We all want to make good impressions with our love interests. It’s incumbent upon all of us to continuously make judgments as to whether our dates actions are consistent with their words. At the risk of mortally wounding your fantasies, ask clarifying questions, observe responses, and continue to reflect on what’s happening between you. When you process these interactions with your date is your reality in the same ballpark as his?

3) To whatever degree is possible, keep your dating out of sight of your children. They don′t need to become anxious over what will happen to them should you remarry when you are dating casually. It’s hard enough to make an intelligent and reasonable judgment about selecting a partner without complicating the matter further. Just keep in mind as you go through the process what kind of stepparent your love interest might be to your kids.

If you reflect on any portions of this article I believe you will be much better prepared to avoid major pitfalls of dating the second time around. Good luck!

annne asked:


how do you meet others your own age that are single? What is the best and safest way would you say? any suggestions?

John Alanis asked:


As the dating tips master who has helped millions of men date sexy women no matter their looks, age or income, I’ve heard all of the stories. I hear it over and over—”It was going so great, and then she disappeared on me… why? What happened? We were having such a great time together. I’m tired of this happening. I want to date sexy women, but I want them to stick around. Do you have any dating tips for me?”

Every time a guy tells me this, I discover he’s making the exact same dating mistakes that most guys do. These dating mistakes can kill your chances of successfully dating sexy women.

Here Are My Top 5 Dating Tips to Help You

Skyrocket Your Success with Sexy Women:

Dating tip #1: Don’t date. Yes, you heard me right. I said don’t date. Think about a traditional “date.” It’s full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain sucks. What do you do on a traditional date? Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, and then she doesn’t return your calls. Trust me, it’s much better (and cheaper) to meet for coffee. It’s fun and relaxed with none of the normal dating expectations.

Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the more she’s attracted to you. Most guys try to impress sexy women. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she’ll begin to wonder why you′re not slobbering all over her. She’ll want to discover more. Now you′re a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys.

Dating tip #3: Be a gentleman but also be a “naughty little boy.” Remember the “class clown” in elementary school—the guy who was cool and funny all at the same time? When you’re talking to sexy women, make unexpected and mischievous comments. Leave them thinking, “I can’t believe he just said that… but I like it.” This shows sexy women you’re NOT impressed by their looks and you need to see more. And because this is so different from what they’re used to, they can’t help but be attracted. I cannot emphasize the importance of this dating tip.

Dating tip #4: Avoid all canned pick up lines or any type of acting. Sexy women have heard it all before. As soon as you spout one, you’re instantly what I call a JAG (just another guy). And JAG’s don′t get sexy women!

Dating tip #5: Look out for her tests. Sexy women will test you to see if you’ll stand up to them. If you can’t stand up to her, you can’t stand up for her. If she asks you to buy her things, that’s a test. It’s also a perfect opportunity to be a naughty little boy as described in dating tip #3. Say something like, “What do I look like an ATM machine? You should buy ME something, just for the privilege of spending time with me. I like sexy women who buy me things!” Say this in a playful, yet firm manner that lets her know you’re onto her. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire.

Obviously there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and secrets you can put to use to grab a hold of the sexy woman of your dreams and never let her go. But if you pay attention to these dating tips, you′ll be a whole lot more successful with sexy women. I guarantee it. So, go re-read all the dating tips again now and start having more fun on your dating adventures!

mrj_tenniⵇ asked:


I’ve been playing high school doubles for 2 years. More than likely I’ll be moved up to play singles this year. Besides the obvious fact that the court boundaries are smaller, what else should I keep in mind? Any drills that would help make the transition?

If it helps to answer, I’m a lefty.
Best Shots: Serve, Forehand
Worst Shots: Backhand, Overhead Smash

May Tan asked:


Online dating is very popular these days. But while dating online has the advantages in its own, over the period of time this has been misused and is corrupted by many disadvantages. Online Dating is fun and convenient but still one has to be very careful while dating with someone they hardly know. The following are some online dating tip: .

1- Start slow. In this online dating tip you are advised to be on the lookout for odd behavior or inconsistencies. If anything makes you uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection.

2- Guard your anonymity. Another online dating tip is to never include your last name, real email address, personal Web site URL, home address, phone number, place of work, or any other identifying information in your profile or initial emails you exchange with other members.

3- Exercise caution and common sense. A good online dating tip where any suitor must earn your trust gradually, through consistently honorable, forthright behavior.

4- Request a photo. Another routine dating tip is to ask for a photo. Photo will give you a good idea of the person’s appearance, which may prove helpful in achieving a gut feeling about your correspondent.

5- Talk via telephone. A valuable online dating tip is talking over the phone. It can reveal much about a person’s communication and social skills.

6- Meet when you are ready. A good online dating tip is to never obligate to meet anyone, regardless of your level of online intimacy.

7- Watch for red flags. Pay attention to any displays of anger, intense frustration or attempts at pressuring or controlling you as a part of online dating tip.

Be concerned if your date exhibits any of the following conduct without providing an acceptable explanation:

• Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, etc.

• Refuses to speak to you over the phone after establishing ongoing, online intimacy.

• Fails to provide direct answers to direct questions.

• Appears in person to be significantly different from his or her online persona.

• Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members.

8- Select the Safest Possible Environment. When you make the choice to meet offline, as an added online dating tip, always tell someone where you are going and when you will return. Leave your date’s name and telephone number with that person.

9- Take Extra Caution Outside Your Area. If you are flying in from another area, an important online dating tip is to arrange for your own car and a hotel room. Do not disclose the name of your hotel and never allow your date to make the arrangements for you.

10- Get yourself out of a jam. As a final online dating tip, never do anything you feel unsure about. If you are in any way afraid of your date, use your best judgment to diffuse the situation and get out of there. Your safety is much more important than one person’s opinion of you.

Jason Roberts asked:


Here are a few tips that you can use for getting more dates through the internet.

Join a dating website.

Joining a dating website (or perhaps a peer network website) is the first step to getting a date over the internet. These websites usually require no fees to join, and you will need only about five minutes to register and get your own personal account.

You should be very careful of the dating websites that you join. Make sure that they are legitimate sites, and that quality people can be found there. It would not be a good idea to join the sleaziest sites out there - you probably won’t find very good dates that way.

Write an excellent profile. The first step to getting internet dates is to create an eye-catching, interesting profile.

Keep in mind that there are thousands - if not millions of profiles just like yours, and you must exhaust all efforts to make it a unique one.

What catches the eye of most browsers are profiles with pictures - so you might want to upload a few of your best pictures into your profile. Make sure you flash a smile or two.

Another part of your profile is describing yourself - likes, dislikes, affiliations, and what not. Again, one must be careful about what is written here, especially when it comes to personal information.

Remember that the internet is full of sexual predators, so you should be careful about giving away full names, addresses, phone numbers, and the like. You probably shouldn’t say exactly where you spend your time either. Here’s a rule of thumb: if it doesn’t need to be known by complete strangers, don’t post it on the internet for all to see.

Be at your best. This tip is intuitive. When trying to find potential partners over the internet, try to be at your personable best. If you use webcams, you might want to be dressed properly before you go online. Appearances still matter, whether in real life or not.

Talk about the other person’s interests. Over the internet, being a good conversationalist is key. One way to become an excellent conversationalist is to talk about what the other person wants to talk about - not what you want to talk about.

Listen carefully to your companion and adopt yourself to whatever topic she seems to enjoy.

Take precautions. When you finally schedule a meeting with someone, be sure to take some extra precautions. For instance, let someone know where you are going, who you are meeting, and what time you expect to be back.

If you have an idea of where you′ll be going (and you should), be sure to let someone close to you know. This will lessen the chances of anything untoward happening to you.

With this bevy of internet dating tips, you have the basics of finding love online. Be yourself, be at your best, and you shouldn’t have any trouble finding a date. After all, it’s a big world.