Date Singles Now

daydreamer113 asked:


Ok maybe that’s not the right way to put my question but…I sent a friend request to this guy I met at school on facebook. He accepted me and also left a wall post in the span of three minutes. I noticed that after he left me a wall post he hasn′t written on anyone else’s wall, including a girl or two who have left him posts, he hasn′t replied to.

Basically he singled me out. Does it mean anything?

Lee Blackspur asked:


If you are tired of unsuccessful or mediocre dates, you may want to look to some of the online dating tips for men. Many of these tips can help you improve your confidence, communication and body language leaving her awed by the end of the night.

Dating is a mix of finding the right person, common ground with them, and keeping enough excitement in the relationship to make it last. Having the right tools and a healthy self esteem can help you succeed in making this woman like you and long for another date. Here’s how.

1. Convince her to like you

This is where most men get lost in the speech, zone out and truly believe that either the woman likes them or does not, simple as that. They really do not realize their true potential at convincing a woman to really like them.

This dating tip is not one that falls in your lap, but you can achieve it with a little bit of practice.

Obviously there is some attraction there or she would not have agreed to go on a date with you, be talking to you or showing interest. So now, it is your goal to really convince her that you two belong together.

Body language and the comments that you make during the evening can take care of this for you. Make presumptive comments such as how great you are together, meant for one another and how wonderfully everything goes when you are together. Basically you are talking to her subconscious and programming it to what you want from her. Hypnosis works, even if you are not a professional.

2. No approval seeking behavior

This is one of the best dating tips you will find anywhere. DO NOT look for her approval. Whatever it is be assertive and explain how absolutely wonderful the topic is. For example, if you are talking about your career and it is not a hot career, then explain how great it really is.

If you point out the positives and are dynamic as well as being passionate about the subject, it projects this positive stance to her. That is the same with any other conversation or topic as well. Any time you put a positive slant on anything, others around you will likely pick up your thoughts and feelings.

This also goes along with another problem that many men face, do not kiss up to her. Be a man, for goodness sake. Play it cool and do not appear to need her yes before you do something. Women like men that are confident and able to make a decision then stand by it.

3. Talk about yourself, but leave something to the imagination

Conversation is a good thing and you do want to tell her about yourself, however, keep it to a minimum. Do not spill your guts and share your weakness or long lost secret. Same goes for your positives as well.

Leave just a little bit to imagination and let her wonder about a few things. If she feels like you are an open book, why is she going to want to pick it up and read any more. So, let her slowly finish the book, so to speak.

Along this same topic be sure that you do not jump off and share your feelings too quickly. This may scare her off and you can seem desperate or too attached.

You have plenty of time to share your emotional longing, but not too quickly. Give her little pieces of your emotions at a time, not a flooding river in which she feels like she is going to drown. The best way to resolve this and not get too carried away is to slow down and take the relationship just that little bit slower.

JAW asked:


progressive urban areas are marketing their cities towards profesional singles because of greater tax contributions and lower tax liabilities and achieving their desired goals.
source sited: NPR radio program called “Smart City”

that guy you know asked:


Do any of you guys realize this and think maybe its because our needs aren’t being met sexually ???? Are the strip clubs getting old???
Ever thinik of becoming gay???

Daryl Campbell asked:


Today is the day. You are all set and spiffy to go over her parent’s house for dinner. This is a major occasion for her and you want to do everything within your power to make sure all goes well. Even though this is not your first time meeting them, you are still kind of nervous about the whole affair.

No you are not nervous about your emotions toward her. You like her a lot and think that maybe you two have a future together. She definitely feels the same way which is why you are being asked to her parent’s house again (the last couple of guys she dated never made it this far).but you are still uneasy. Why? Because you don′t want to go thru what you went thru last time particularly with her father.

“Can you believe they give the Nobel Prize to a bum like Al Gore?” That’s how her father started his first conversation with you. Truthfully you never gave it much thought. Politics and politicians have always bored the daylights out of you. Gore winning or losing doesn’t put any more money in your pocket. But the old man kept going anyway.

“That’s a subversive organization. Always has been.” You ask what organization and quickly regret it.

“The Nobel Prize Committee.” Mother and daughter gently chide him to give it a rest but he is just getting warmed up. Before, during and after dinner he proceeds to tell you why he dislikes Al Gore, Hillary and Bill, Western Europe and anything else politically that crosses his radar screen. After the date you don’t like Al Gore much either. Not due to politics but because he and Tipper were not here to run interference for you.

Politics has always been a touchy subject but it seems like in this day and age it has reached a fever pitch. While the best strategy is to avoid any discussion, especially on a date, sometimes circumstances will not allow it. So what do you do?

1. Grin and Bear It

Since politics doesn’t mean anything to you and her dad is passionate about it, you can always just let it pass. Your date is on the same wavelength as you when it comes to politics; she could not care less. But she loves her father and understands it is in his nature to get wound up about this stuff. Remember also that you are not moving in with them. You will only see her parents occasionally so if possible don’t sweat it

2. Steering

There is an art to moving from one conversation to another without being too abrupt or blatantly obvious. This requires listening (I know but do it anyway) and timing. For instance if he uses a certain word or phrase, that maybe the perfect segue to change the subject and start talking about sports, movies the weather or anything else besides politics. Hopefully your date will pick up on what you are trying to do and lend her support.

Understand, it is their house and he is going to have his say but moving the discussion smoothly in another direction may get him to lighten up a bit.

3. Gore! Gore! Rah! Rah! Rah!

Okay this one comes under the heading of the nuclear option. You learn everything you can politically and you charge into a head on confrontation. Now as you have probably guessed this has a lot of downside to it including angry words, hurt feelings and possibly the end of your relationship with her.

However sometimes fighting the good fight is what the other person wanted all along. Her father likes a spirited debate and after it’s over he may disagree with you on every issue but he respects the fact that you stood your ground. This elevates you in his eyes. The key to all of this is to get feedback from your date. If she says its okay then you may want to go for it but even then gauge the situation carefully and go slow. Her father might like a good argument but nobody wants to be disrespected in their own house.

If you can avoid hot button issues like politics all together than do so. You like the woman you are dating and you want to like her parents too. However if push comes to shove then consider the three options mentioned above and be particularly cautious regarding the last one. Showing that you can keep things under control cannot help but impress your date, her parents and Al Gore.

Master ß ƒƒƒƒ asked:


I mean, the U.S. is supposed to have God’s backing, rite?

Srsly, what’s going on??

hhgdgdfg asked:


Don’t give me this website .. I already been here .. it’s not what I looking for http://www.billboard.com.

I want a website where I can look at all the SINGLES (Pop, R&B) that made it No1 and also see how many weeks it stayed No1. Dates from 2001-2008.

yo-yo asked:


How come you can only play doubles?

☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ Don’t Blink ★ ★ ★ ★ asked:


I feel like every one around me that is with someone somehow has this invisible upper hand in life… I know it sound retarded but I think I’m at a disadvantage being single…I know that this isn’t a healthy reason to get a boyfriend but I don’t know if I’ll ever feel normal if I don’t get one soon…Any help?

justinrbynoe asked:


Ive been looking fo a store ever since luckyfrog closed down. I am looking for a store with a wide selection of single cards including commons and cards from extended and legacy packs, and I am looking for a store not a website.