October 31st, 2009
Joe . asked:
Exactly how is it figured. I assume it is tied to inflation or something or only goes up by a few % points each year, but how is that right that your income goes up by 50%, but your deduction only goes up by 5%.
Tags: Irs, Singles, Std
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October 30th, 2009
Nish asked:
I can honestly and proudly say that I am one, I believe that the body is our temple and that let strange, defiled, people in can contiminate it. It’s not easy, Lord knows it isn’t, but I want to do what’s holy and pleasing. Anyone else out there?
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October 30th, 2009
Nish asked:
I can honestly and proudly say that I am one, I believe that the body is our temple and that let strange, defiled, people in can contiminate it. It’s not easy, Lord knows it isn′t, but I want to do what’s holy and pleasing. Anyone else out there?
Leona, I have 2 kids also, and they have a daddy, but it’s out of respect for yourself, until you marry.
good for you Sexy Black, I know you can do this!
Tags: Celibate Singles, Leona
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October 29th, 2009
Timothy asked:
One example is that the “Marriage” and “Singles″ categories women love chivalrous men but the GWS feminists hate chivalrous men. Why are they different?
You feminists seem to look down on everybody.
Tags: Feminists, Gws, Marriage
Posted in Gender & Women's Studies | 14 Comments »
October 29th, 2009
Rohit Chopra asked:
Thanks to our frenzied lifestyle that ensures that we effectively have a non-existent social life, online dating has become the in-thing. With remote chances of squeezing in clubbing and outings into our lives, we look to the Internet to find us dates. While online dating has become quite popular these days, it is extremely necessary that men tread the path with care if they wish to attract ladies. The following online dating tips for men will be useful in helping a man catch the attention of the kind of ladies that they would like to date.
Truth pays:
The primary online dating tip for a man is to be truthful while starting a relationship and later too. It is easy to lie online but keep in mind that sooner or later your lies will be uncovered and that could well be the end of the relationship. Though the temptation to pose as someone attractive can be great indeed especially in case of Internet dating where faking a personality is no trouble at all, this is the last thing you should do.
Once you are branded a liar, even your truthful assertions will be taken for lies. So, as they say, honesty is the best policy. Sticking to this online dating tip for a man will ensure that you have a fruitful relationship. At the same time, it is also possible that the girl you are dating may not find your true personality or other aspects appealing enough in which case it would be better to break off at that very point without causing each other hurt and misery than later on in the relationship.
Coming to the next online dating tip for a man, it is important to supply your recent photograph for your portfolio and not that, which was taken years ago. Your photograph is what your date will come to know you as and when you meet face to face later on, the girl may be shocked to see a different you and may be really put off at your lack of uprightness. This could really put you in a spot because whatever you say after that will be taken with a pinch of salt.
Move ahead with care:
A very important online dating tip for a man is that he should allow the girl sufficient time and space before broaching the subject of a first real date. Do not rush her at the very outset, before she gets on a comfortable level with you. And when she is finally ready to meet you, give her the comfort of selecting the meeting place. An essential online dating tip for a man in this respect is to spend the first date and even the next few ones, if possible, trying to know and discover each other. Do not be overbearing or brazen so as to make her feel edgy or compel her to consent to anything that might put her off including walking her home.
Perhaps the most effective online dating tip for a man is to slowly win the girls trust, which is a very vital aspect of any relationship and needs to be done with care. Be a gentleman and allow her to know you better so that she may trust you enough to invite you to her place or go over to yours. So, take your time and allow the relationship to blossom gradually.
While there are differences between online dating and real time dating, the basic rules are the same. Being honest to each other and putting in sincere effort to slowly nurture the relationship into a successful one are the fundamentals in both the cases.
Tags: Internet Dating, Temptation, Uprightness
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October 28th, 2009
My Relationship Tips asked:
In dating, there are a lot of written and unwritten rules. Once a particular question is asked, it can lead to a start of a debate between the sexes.
An example of such question is: who should pay for a date? Some women will answer right out, it is the guy who should pay. Some may insist on going Dutch.
Money and dating should not be in the same sentence when you are enclosed in that romantic haze, but you have to be practical and think about who should pay when you go out on a date.
The dating game is very complicated, and any aspect about it can start arguments between both genders. The least that one can come up with is some unwritten, modern-day guidelines when it comes to paying for a date. Take a look at the following:
1. The one who initiates the date would have to pay.
If you are a man going after the woman of your dreams, the basic rule of thumb is, you should be the one to pay.
If you are on your second, third or fourth date and it looks as if you will continue to see more of each other, then you can easily make arrangements on who should pay for which meal.
Should there be other expenses when you go out that needs to be taken care of, you can both decide on it as you grow more familiar with each other.
If you are a woman and you casually invited your man to go out, it would not be awkward or bad-looking for him if you offer to pay for your date since you were the one who issued the invite.
The only thing that you need to remember is that the inviter should pay for the invitee.
However, there are times when you would have more than one tab to pay.
If you decide to go to a movie first before dinner, the one who bought the tickets should not have to pay for dinner, too. Make sure that you contribute something and not let your date pay for your entire evening together.
2. If you have it, flaunt it.
Not in your date’s face, though.
If you are on a date and one is obviously more affluent than the other, then the more financially capable one should dole out the money.
If you are a woman and you know that you are more well-off than your date, do not hesitate in offering to pay up. Should your date refuse the first time, cave in, but make sure that the next time you go out, you will be the one to shoulder the bill. This rule can also apply to friends going out to eat somewhere.
This does not go to say that the one without funds should never pay, but always consider the other person’s financial means when going out on a date.
3. Get this matter out of the way right before your date starts.
To avoid awkwardness, you should immediately get this issue out of the way. For example, just before you sit down to dinner, the person who will shoulder the bill should say, It’s my treat, or Dinner’s on me. This is so that you would not have to resolve the issue - should an argument ensue - after you have eaten.
4. For men, give ample consideration for traditional or conservative women who still think that it is should be the man who would have to pay for the a date.
This rule particularly applies to women who are above 40. If you want to get on their good graces, it is still a good thing to pay for a date especially the first one. Most women from this age group might feel awkward or uncomfortable offering to pay for a date.
Generally, women will feel more pampered when a man pays for the first date. In fact, most women expect it.
Men, on the other hand, feel like it is their role to pay for the date. In this case, it is okay to throw the modern, unwritten dating rules out the window and let the men pay for the date.
5. Going Dutch is not a very good idea when going out on dates.
Aside from the complications of splitting the bill, going Dutch would not apply to every situation. This would only be good if you are a dating couple and you are both students, then you can split the bill with no harm done.
However, as mature adults, one shouldering the full bill for your night out would show your way of looking at things at a broader sense.
Paying for a date does not show what you are capable of, financially. It would also show your generosity and the fact that you want to take care of each other’s needs.
Finally, if you are in the habit of alternating payments between dates, then you are building a give and take quality that every relationship should have.
Tags: Debate, Haze, Rule Of Thumb
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October 28th, 2009
hottchick404 asked:
13 and under that live in georgia! help
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October 24th, 2009
gab asked:
If so can you post an address or website.
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October 23rd, 2009
Daryl Campbell asked:
You can plan, prepare verify, check and recheck but there isw always going to be somethings in the dating game that will be overlooked.
We are all human and the easiest thing in the world sometimes is to not fully take into account the consideration of others. Small items can have great significance.
1. What Have You Been Eating?
You notice your date occasionally pulls away from you when you get a little closer. Why? You are clean and well groomed. The deodorant is effective without being overpowering so what’s the problem?
Could be the old breath thing. Bad breath can be very embarrassing as well as a major turnoff not just for that particular date but for the entire relationship. Clean and floss your teeth thoroughly, use mouthwash and carry some extra mints with you.
Moreover, pay attention to what food you consume. Anything that has been flavored too strongly can trigger bad breath. If you like zesty seasoning, you may want to pass it up this time around.
2.That’s the Stupidest Thing You’ve Ever Heard
You think the conversation is going well. It was during the beginning but now it has turned into a one person show. Every time the other person tried to give their opinion you shot them down in a not so nice way. Now you suddenly realize from their body language that this date ended about an hour ago.
Being diplomatic should always be high on your priority list when out on a date. Yes you maybe an expert on a certain subject or two but you do not have to laud it over your date. Let them have their say.
If you disagree or know for a fact the information they spouted is wrong, than you can ask questions or gently correct them. If it is just small talk and has no significance concerning your dating relationship, than sometimes it is best to just let it go.
This is not a debate or a sporting event where you must score points. Letting the other person have their say without feeling the need to “win″ the conversation is an important part of diplomacy and dating.
3 Is That Your Cell Phone or Mine?
Aye Carumba. This is the new rude. Not only do you take the call (what are you thinking?) but you spend way too much time on it. You then fill your date in on the details. Think they care by now? Probably not. That one action tells them you are not taking this date seriously.
Your friends, family and acquaintances can get along with you for a little while so turn your cell phone off and concentrate on the business at hand. And truthfully if the shoe was on the other foot, you would not be happy.
Try as you might, there is no way to guarantee a perfect date. You can always look back and realize that maybe you should have said or done something different. But keep in mind to take care of the breath, make your date an equal partner in the conversation, and turn the cell phone off. Keep in mind little things mean a lot. The more you do the more your date will appreciate you.
Tags: Consideration Of Others, Funny, Par
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October 22nd, 2009
ยท asked:
I’m already signed in to a commercial online dating like perfectmatch.com, but very few women respond.
Tags: Netherlands, Organization, Singles
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October 21st, 2009
vis asked:
when your talking to your new sweetie on your cordless phone . and you have to go to the bath room.. do you tell them you will be right back and put the phone down and go do what you have to..or do you just take the phone with you to the bath room?
Tags: Bath Room, Cordless Phone, Singles & Dating
Posted in Singles & Dating | 7 Comments »
October 20th, 2009
Jason G asked: Hi. I am interested in meeting Chinese singles on-line. What types of sayings and greetings should I say in Chinese when I meet them? Please let me know. Thank you.
Tags: Asian Sites, Greetings, Women Chat
Posted in Languages | 5 Comments »
October 19th, 2009
Maurice Tate asked:
I asked my women friends this question the other day about what things they hate about men and for some dating tips and I was surprised about the response. I assumed lack of money would be one issue women hate. Another issue I felt could be important would be a lack of listening skills. I expected that most women would find most men lack the ability to have a deep emotional connection. I also expected most women would like great sex.
To my surprise I found that most women hated wussy men. They used different words for this. They used words like clingy and needy and a mums boy. It seems most women do not want to be a mum to their man.
Why do men become very needy? I have been reflecting on this and I feel it comes back to how we related to our mums. Did the man feel totally loved by their mum? Just about any man and myself would say that that their mum did her best but she did not love them unconditionally. So the boy feels that he was not loved on some level when he was growing up.
So when the boy is grown up he has a need for love. He feels that his women can fulfill this need of love that he did not receive from his mum. He becomes needy around women. His happiness depends on a woman. He tries to please his women by gifts, flowers and expensive restaurants. He puts up with her flaking out on dates and her over critical behavior. He is NICE. He is far too NICE.
Women hate this!
Have you ever noticed that some very attractive women are not interested in nice man but are attracted to Bad Boys? Do you have attractive women friends that just want to be friends with you? Have you been told that you are nice but a woman just wants to be friends with you?
If so, I feel you could be wussy on some level. Another sign is a fear of rejection from women. If your happiness is dependent on your partner you will fear loosing her a lot. You need her to be happy so you are dependent on her.
I have observed that women are very sensitive to picking up on needy men. Perhaps it is the body language that a needy man uses. I feel that it is also an energy thing that women can feel. I feel women really want a challenge and not a wuss. They love a very confident, sexy man that knows he can attract any women with no effort
For myself to grow out of being a wuss, I had to learn to love the good, the not so good and myself. When I did this I felt a lot more self-love to myself. I became less needy around women and I found I attracted a much more feminine, sexy women as a result. I hope you enjoyed this dating tip for men.
Tags: Emotional Connection, Great Sex, Listening Skills
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October 17th, 2009
Ann Marier asked:
Many times when a girl is looking for a dating tip, there tends to be many ways to find them, but they lead to general tips that don′t result in specific dating tips for a girl. Sure, general dating tips can help anyone who reads them but for specific tips that help a particular gender or preference, they can be few and far between. If you’re looking for dating tips for a girl, look no further and read on!
The first thing you should know when looking into dating tips for a girl, is to pick and choose carefully. Because everyone is different, not every tip will work well for everyone. So be sure that you use the tips that you’re comfortable with, don’t forget to be true to who you really are, and you’re sure to be successful!
Tip #1
Dating tips for girls will usually include wearing sexy clothing and basically “putting yourself out there″. You won’t find these tips in this article. The first tip to be shared with you is to be yourself! Many women think that they can’t be themselves when they first meet a man for one reason or another.
The bottom line is, if he doesn’t like you for you, the relationship isn’t going to get very far because eventually your true colors will shine through, it’s human nature! So, be yourself and stay confident. You′ll meet plenty of men who love your personality and the kind of person you are.
Tip #2
Another great dating tip for girls is to make sure you don’t air your dirty laundry on the first date. Let’s face it, we all have things going on in our lives that aren’t the most attractive to the opposite sex. Now, this isn’t to say that you should keep this stuff hidden as long as possible, but you surely shouldn’t tell him all about it the first time you spend time together. Give him a chance to get to know you, and vice versa.
A door will open after a few dates that will allow you the chance to start giving him information he should know that may affect him in the long run. By the time these conversations come about, you’ll already be in a relationship and it will be easier for him to understand the things you’re telling him without being scared off.
Tip #3
Finally, another important dating tip for girls is to not come off as desperate! This doesn’t mean that you′re falling all over the men that you meet or letting them know how much you need to find a date, this means to avoid doing things like waiting by the phone for his call and paying for the date just because he asks.
These small things that you may think are simply thoughtful because you like him, may lead him to believe you’re willing to do whatever it takes to make him happy and to snag him for yourself. This leads to one of two things; he’ll either get turned off and stop calling, or he’ll decide that it’s worth taking advantage of you, neither of which you want.
Tags: Dating Tips, First Date, Lead
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October 16th, 2009
UhOh! asked:
whats a good dating website for black singles with herpes…
thanks!
Tags: Black Singles, Dating Website, Singles & Dating
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