What can I say in Chinese when I meet Chinese women from Asian singles sites or chat rooms online?

October 20th, 2009
Jason G asked:


Hi. I am interested in meeting Chinese singles on-line. What types of sayings and greetings should I say in Chinese when I meet them? Please let me know. Thank you. :D

5 Responses to “What can I say in Chinese when I meet Chinese women from Asian singles sites or chat rooms online?”

  1. Kristi Says:
    October 23rd, 2009 at 5:11 am

    Point to yourself and say “Yangwei” with a big smile. She’ll love it.

  2. Thistle_Rose Says:
    October 25th, 2009 at 4:35 am

    Nǐ hǎo, Shēntǐ hǎo ma? (nee-how, shin-tee how mah/Hello, how are you?)
    Hěn gāoxìng rènshì nǐ (hen gow sheeng rahn-she nee/ It’s nice to meet you.)

  3. asterisk Says:
    October 26th, 2009 at 1:33 pm

    Ni hao. Qing wen, ni yong jiao ge peng you ma? (nee-how. ching when, nee yong jeeao guh pung yo ma?) The equivalent goes like this: Hello. If I may ask, can we be friends? Just a note: This is a pretty casual phrase, but still very polite. Don’t worry about asking to become friends with them first because Chinese women generally don’t like it when a guy asks them out right off the bat.

    Another thing, never ever say: Wo yao chi ni de dou fu. (wo yow chier nee duh dough foo) which means “I want to eat your tofu.” This is slang for saying “I want to take advantage of you.”

    Good luck :)

  4. Man of Action Says:
    October 29th, 2009 at 4:22 pm

    You can tell her in confidence, “ni bu yong hai pa, wo bu shi se lang” which means “Don’t worry I’m not a color wolf” But “Color wolf” in chinese means a satyr, or sexual deviant. This should assure her that you are a nice guy, and also is a funny way to start a conversation. I used it dating in China and the girls usually thought it was cute. Good luck

  5. Tyler K Says:
    November 1st, 2009 at 8:56 am

    Asian women are so beautiful!!