How should i react if i found my girlfriend on a singles site?
November 22nd, 2009jeffmg asked:
one day i found a secret e-mail account that was her’s and i found that she was on single sites. When i asked her she said she did it for a friend what should i do.She had her picture sent to other men and when i asked her she said her friend did not want her picture on there because of ex-husband
one day i found a secret e-mail account that was her’s and i found that she was on single sites. When i asked her she said she did it for a friend what should i do.She had her picture sent to other men and when i asked her she said her friend did not want her picture on there because of ex-husband
November 23rd, 2009 at 11:33 am
LEAVE HER ALONE!
November 25th, 2009 at 9:32 pm
confront her about it
November 27th, 2009 at 11:31 pm
Sounds suspicious to me. I think you should start being single.
November 28th, 2009 at 5:56 am
hmm i think you have a promlbe you will have to deal with in a big way. this is what you should think about doing.
Tell her its OVER
November 29th, 2009 at 11:38 pm
Well, well….looks like you have no boundaries and love to sneak behind your gf’s back to see what she is up to. You really have a self-esteem problem, huh, big guy? Well…then that should tell you WHY she’s looking for someone else!!!! All that other stuff is crap. Stop poking around in her business and and do her a favor and bow out of the picture. Always hated sneaky men.
December 2nd, 2009 at 3:30 pm
well dude ur girl lying to u. why would she risk her relationship for her friend.. she just on there trying to meet other men.. get rid of her lying ass.
December 5th, 2009 at 4:32 am
Bollonie, she’s not happy with you and I know that as I’ve been there done that. When you love truly yours eyes don’t see, your heart feels for you only and no one else can whisper on your ears.
December 5th, 2009 at 11:50 am
She maybe needs some safe reassurance of attention. You know, her ego stroked, and she’s getting that done safely without demanding it from you. Now, let’s hope it’s all platonic, if she’s acting on these things, then you’ve got a REAL problem.
December 6th, 2009 at 9:37 am
Time for a new g/f
December 8th, 2009 at 11:11 pm
hun, face the fact!! she is either cheating or looking for someone else!! that is crap bout her friend.. you need to leave her and find someone who is more worth your while… sorry that happened to you.
December 9th, 2009 at 8:00 am
talk to her.
tell her if she wants to be your girlfriend she needs to act like it.
or your gonna leave her.
trust is important and if shes the one really doing it and not for a friend then ditch her because she not girlfriend material.
and ask her who shes doing it for and ask that person,
but
if she wont tell you than shes hiding something
i hope this helps you
December 11th, 2009 at 10:38 am
if you believe your girlfriend then ask her to tell you if she ever does it again.and if you dont believe her you should decide if she is impotant enough to forgive or can you do better do you deserve better i would say goodbye!!!
December 12th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
Sounds iffy. If she is lying and it truely is for her and not her friend (which sound a little fishy) then the possibility is that she is trying to boost her self-esteem or just the rush of the whole ordeal, or the unfortunate that she may not be a one man girl. On the other hand if you talk to her about whether or not she is viewing herself in bad light and she says yes then it is your turn to step up and help her see her true beauty. I hope that what I have said helped you. I am a female and I have done simular in the past…lying of course, and with me it was a mixture of the first 2. Good luck!
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 am
Sounds like she might be looking for someone to go out with. Sign up and ask her for a date. Just like in the song. “Do you like Pina-Colads, getting caught in the rain, MAKIN LOVE AT MIDNIGHT” and all that stuff. Or as some other folks said, Dump and run.
December 14th, 2009 at 12:04 pm
Replace her with a gorgeous woman that has a beautiful personality.
December 17th, 2009 at 5:55 pm
Frankly i would make up an ad myself and answer hers, see where that gets ya….I have done it before and you can find out a lot of crap about someone. May not be nice but what is she doing?
December 18th, 2009 at 12:20 pm
Ok. There are only 3 possibilities, either she is telling u the truth, she is lying to u or she is telling half truth and half lie.
If she is telling u the truth, u can tell her that u are not againt of the idea of having an account in singles site, but u are not comfortable that u are sending her own photos to a stranger, regardless of the reason. As her bf, u are really concerned with this.. She will understand what u mean; If she cares how u feel, she will stop sending photo to others.
If she lying to u(meaning she go to Singles web site herself and hooking a man there), u can ask her what is she thinking and does she seriouly care for u and your relationship? And hope she will stop it now and never do it again.
If she is half half, well, depends on her answer.
But i don’t know which one she is in now. Anyway, u should tell her that your most concern is not to send her photo to a man. She can help her friend, but through this way.
PS: I also have an account on Singles web site, but just to have fun, i did nothing except doing some quizzes there
December 19th, 2009 at 1:34 am
You have two options:
First, you give your girlfriend the benefit of the doubt. Trust that she is telling the truth. Give her your full trust. For all you know, you could have a wrong appreciation of facts all this time. Do this if you’re still willing to save the relationship. But talk to her about how you feel about it. She might not do it again anymore, if at all that’s true. It’s all about giving her another chance.
Second, leave the relationship. Join the singles sites and send pictures to “her”. =)
December 20th, 2009 at 3:58 am
Hey if I were you I would give it your best to keep her are your feelings strong in your heart do you love her enough to let her earn your trust back and to never do stupid stuff like that again because it only hurts you deeper. But you could hurt even more if you don’t give it your all and you guys never see each other again and then it might be to late time will tell and heal your heart if it’s meant to be. Nobodys perfect. I bet she is truely sorry and would never do it again just ask her and see what she says.