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Francis Githinji asked:


Lesbian dating tips will empower lesbians to go out and form strong and stable relationships. Good dating advice is usually very invaluable and you need to make sure you know what to do in a lesbian relationship. The following are some of the lesbian dating tips that you will find very helpful to you. Lesbian dating is not easy and just like any other relationship, you will realize that you need sound advice at many instances. The first thing is to be yourself and, make sure you maintain a natural flow to a relationship. If you start off as a different person, there is a time where you will unmask and you might not be that pleasing to anybody. Being yourself is not always very easy and, all you have to do is maintain your character and ensure that your principles are intact. The other thing is to have a listening ear. In a relationship, you need to have deep concern for the other person. This way, you will have the heart to listen to your mate honestly.

If you are forced to listen, you will probably get bored and you are likely to stop listening in the future. Another thing is safety. This applies most when you are meeting the person for the first time. This rules that go with the first date are not just for other forms of relationships. Lesbian dating needs to be safe and secure for everyone. Lesbian dating tips are in plenty and, one that is sure to enhance your lesbian relations is honesty. There is no other great tip like this one. You must maintain honesty in the relationship if you want it to work for you. You must be honest with your feelings so that you can take the relationship to levels you have not been to. This is true because lies and deceit will only work for the detriment of your relationship. When meeting for the first time, is it vital that you maintain a light mood. It is not always easy to transform the mood from dull to bright.

Therefore, if you are confident about a few humorous moves, you can engage them and, make your partner more at ease. Some people try flirting moves to make the mood light when you are meeting for the first time. This is fine only if you truly like the person. It is advised that you should keep it subtle. This is because you do not want to scare your date. There is something magical about letting nature takes its course in a relationship. You will be very delighted to know that you do not have to feel overburdened by a relationship for it to work. Obsessing over a relationship will only make you feel uneasy. Therefore, take time and ensure that you take it easy. You need to be ready if you want to take a relationship further. Remember, the key to a relationship is to make it progress from the first day of meeting. You will be pleased to see that you will make your relationship go even further than you anticipated.

Neil Lemons asked:


One of the hardest, but most important, attraction tools to initiate and maintain after meeting a potential mate or sex partner is to pique her interest, arouse her passion, and raise her curiosity levels early on. You only get small amount of time before you’re making a touchdown in the friend zone on the team you don′t want to be playing on. Avoid this draft.

You want to get her thinking you are a smart, witty, sensual, and a potential dating material early on. Because women are always looking for the hidden meaning, or “what is he really saying,” and enjoy dissecting your words, you will have a great advantage over many other men if you can maintain an interesting and engaging blog and can get her to start reading soon after she meets you.

It’s like creating your own real-time, updatable, dating site profile that she comes back to again and again, feening and hungry for knowledge about you to sink her teeth into and wrap her overanalyzing brain around.

I won′t go into how to get a blog, there are tons of user-friendly platforms out there (Blogger, Livejournal, WordPress), and you can figure it out. After you get a blog, there are at least four strategies to help you get started building her info-obsession and I will lay them out for you, but first I want to give you a little background.

My Own Obsession Seeding Blog Experience-

I started blogging my junior year in college around late 2001, way before blogging was even cool. I soon found out the unspoken rules, drama, as well as accidentally discovered some unique advantages and relationship-jump starter benefits I would have never had imagined possible by putting a few paragraphs online.

I have to admit, I probably scored at least three long-term girlfriends, 20 acquaintances/friends, and a dozen dates over a four year period purely from bloggin’ it up. I kept them reading months, even years, after the relationship was over. I know for a fact these girls would continue to read my blog if I updated often enough. I am sure they eventually trailed off after not updating for months. My words echoed in their skulls and yours can too with the proper training and advice.

First, you must understand I never did anything to blatantly get a reaction (ok maybe a couple of times). That is the beauty of it: A blog is supposed to be your true feelings, thoughts, and stories. Similar to a newspaper, if it’s put in print (even digital print), it must be true and a woman can not argue with that logic when it comes to feelings because it is there own. Feelings should be trusted as truth indicators for which you can not be blamed.

Now, the Four Strategies:

1. The Unveiling - Keep it Subtle

After you′ve gone on one date, regardless of where you met her, mention that you have a blog that you keep up with that your friends read. She’ll think it is nice that you considered her a friend, then send her the address. Now that you have baited your hook, take the next step, but do this oh so carefully. She she is mildly interested, she will then use the blog to gain a “deeper insight” to who you are the days following the date.

2. Me, Me, Meeeeee — Mention Her Once & She will be Hooked

People can not resist seeing their own name in print, as well as reading your thoughts and opinions about them. Casually mention her name in a post without any strong feelings toward or against her for the most effect. Psychological experiments prove variable interval reinforcement schedules (Google it) are the strongest for predicting consistent behavior.

She’ll come back over and over, wondering when is the next time you will write about her and possibly expose how you really feel.

3. Post about Past Dates & Dating Other Women

This may seem counter-intuitive, but it sucks her in like a line of coke does to Courtney Love. This works especially well, if they are dates from the past, but if you are seeing other people simultaneously talk about those dates too. Once she has been hooked by you mentioning her name, she is sure to think you may have talked about other dates with other women in past posts as she is clicking “previous” until her pointer finger is sore. It helps even more if you post the girls’ pictures in the entry.

Dummy Disclaimer

Only post the girl’s picture when each relationship has actually ended, or it might freak the subject of the post out slightly. Always take a picture down, if any past dating partners request.

End Disclaimer

Past dates will mostly likely never ask because, even if you do post it too early, the immediate EX won’t want to admit she is still reading your blog.

If you don’t have a lot of dates to write about, write about how some girl flirted with you or how you had a great time with your friends. If you can’t be seen as a mysterious writer guy that is highly sought after, you can at least be considered a fun guy that people like and has a life of his own without her. This is highly attractive as well. That is a subject for another dating tip article.

4. Go Deep, but Not too Deep

It is good to be thought-provoking and philosophical in your entries sometimes, but don’t overdo it. This should be obvious, but don’t whine, give self-pity, or share your deep-seeded childhood feelings and stories about how your uncle touched you. This isn’t therapy, it’s entertainment for yourself, others and to help you get that next date. Good luck!